Sunday 27 September 2015

Aarushi - Hemraj murder case - Has justice been served ??

         




              It was 16 May 2008 , one of the horrific night when a bright student of DPS noida turning 14 after 8 days Aarushi Talwar , was murdered her head was smashed and throat was slit . A day later second body of their servant Hemraj completely swollen and difficult to recognize was discovered at the terrace of Talwars house.

            My sole motive behind writing this post is that I strongly believe that this is something which  can happen to anyone amongst us .  There is a part of the society that strongly feel that Rajesh and Nupur Talwar are innocent and yes I am one of them .

            I have heard many people giving dumb opinions in this case, its a juggernaut where people have created their own perceptions and investigations .

Some say Talwar's were
wife swappers ,
Rajesh Talwar was having an affair
Aarushi was found in an unacceptable position with Hemraj and so Dad killed them.
Out of four Nupur and Rajesh were alive and so are culprits.
CBI say that Talwars didn't grief and so suspects

System has crunched the story in as many way as they can to make the Talwar's murderers of their only daughter whom they loved beyond anything.

I am not saying that I am 100% correct in what I am trying to prove by this but yes I can guarantee that this case has lot many loopholes.

So without getting into the Ifs and buts of this case I would directly try to bring certain loopholes of in this case .

           On the morning of 16 May 2008 when murder news broke , Talwars house was filled with lot many visitors known unknown  the complete house was swarmed with relatives , press, strangers. Each visitor was doing its own investigation  The biggest blunder and mistake was that the crime scene was not cordoned by the police so their were possibilities that clues swept away .

In narco - analysis test Krishna (Rajesh compounder ) showed deception in his statements which hinted that he had some connection in this case , Also when police raided Krishna's house they found a pillow cover which had samples of blood stains of Hemraj.
But later they were proved incorrect by CBI quoting it as typographical error.

Bharti Mandal maid who worked at Talwars place and who was also first eye witness after Rajesh and Nupur deferred from her statements.
Also since 2008 , three different CBI team have taken charge each showed their own versions of investigations in this case. Which shows again a very big aperture in this case.

I have highlighted very few loopholes in this case there are still many hidden mysteries in this case.

           So my earnest request to you all is don't think like a mute mind please try to look into this case from other perspective . Try to read reports and references available on different links . Also I will request you to read Avirook's book 'Aarushi' which addresses to the flaws of this case .He has extensively interviewed Major three institutions in connection to this case ie; Judges , CBI officials and key witnesses. He has done an in depth research in this case . This book has created an out rage amongst people against the system.

As there is one famous quote by Marcus Aurelius which states ;

" Everything we hear can be sometimes a opinion , not a fact .
  Everything we see can be a perspective , not always the truth "

In 2010 Court filed a closure report stating as lack of evidence , but In 2011 Nupur Talwar appealed for reopening of the case but little did they know that they will become prime suspects in this case. Now, The Talwars have been sentenced to life imprisonment by the lower court , appeal is pending at Allahabad High court .

Would like to share Avirook Sen's experience with Talwar's at Dasna jail .

( Nupur Talwar greeted me with a smile and before I could finish saying ' How are you? ' she smiled and replied ' We are veterans here now. We're experienced ! We are doing fine.....' and then Rajesh Talwar in a much quieter way replied ' We have to make do ....what choice do we have ? Just trying to understand why we are here , what is our destiny. ' )

Rajesh now got an opportunity to set up a small dental chair in the jail clinic, he is always in a state of disbelief by the thought that they have been called as murderers of their own child ' Aaru ' and servant 'Hemraj'. Nupur now looks devastated , ragged and tired . No proper food to eat and the Talwars always wonder what Aaru would feel if she saw us like this.

  Words written by Rajesh in his diary
 " Just no way to prove innocence. No one has proved anything in this case. Just that they are not satisfied by our reply . I miss Aaru so much. Can't imagine she's no more. I can feel the pain that she must have felt, and it leaves me helpless. I couldn't help her at all "

Sunday 20 September 2015

Don't dream your life , live your dreams....

                                              we are resposible for what we are , and whatever we wish to be we have the power to make ourselves.
       we are responsible,
      for what we are
           and whatever we wish to be,
            we have the power to make ourselves

          My this post is dedicated to those “ who believe , feel and want to make their dream come true, but somehow because of other priorities in life their dreams have been dispersed”
          I am reading  “ The complete works of Swami Vivekanand “ In this book what I realized that Swamiji’s  teachings , his works , his principles are all based on only two facts of life Humanity and Truth .
          In my this post and also in all the related post I will try my level best to relate his thoughts and facts with ours. I hope my small effort can be answers to your hidden doubts. And you know what even I am looking out solutions to many of doubts about life and also about we the puppets
          Swamiji  says “What we are now is only the result of our past actions and whatever we wish to become in future will be because of our present actions “
          Friends we all have some dream in our heart and mind , Like when I was young I would always dream to opt mass media as my career but u know how our family structure is, being a Marwari girl and living in a Marwari society where u are surrounded by businessmen , engineers , CAs .
I always feel that I did one mistake in my life I always would listen to others and not to my heart but you know what,  I can’t blame my parents , my surrounding my society for that as I didn’t had guts, daring to believe in my dream. Just because of my parents , just because someone doesn’t feel the same spark in my dream I changed my decision, my path of life and now I repent on my past decisions .
          I realized “what I am now is only because of my past actions and whatever I wish to become in future will be because of my present actions”
And so now instead of repenting I focus more on bringing my life back on track , Friends It’s not about Dreaming big, It’s all about believing in your dream and taking small baby steps in that direction.
          I don’t know whether my these words have the spark that burns your dream more clearly in your mind’s eye. But trust me friends, do what you dream, don’t stop dreaming else time will come when you won’t be able to dream.
You know what ,  “If you are not happy then you can’t make others happy “ 
And so here comes the answer to all your worries ,frustration,depression.To make oneself happy start doing small things that keep you happy from inside.
          Like generally  I have seen many of friends who have become housewives after marriage have a certain negativity in them as in they feel demotivated and complex with their working friends. So my honest suggestion to you my lovely , sweet ,cute housewives is please remove this poisonous thought from your mind that if you are without a job or u are not earning then you have spoiled your career or life. 
Trust me all men and women in a society are not of the same intelligence, capacity and luck. I know it’s difficult to accept but yes it is true. I will ask you one question Is this the only petty motive left in your life. Find out the motive energy / power that prompts you that can reanimate you / make you feel young again, start breathing new life , rejuvenate yourself …..
          If you love dancing join a kathak class , a zumba which is in trend , love drawing  join some  creativity class ….love music join singing class , guitar…etc; If you are a doctor by profession and now at home start writing blog or with the help of a techy friend make an app and share your knowledge to the world outside.
Oh come on !!!! 3 day a week not a big deal Right!!!!
In worst case chalo at least an hour a week ….
Now don’t give excuses ….like I don’t have time, My family won’t permit….etc,etc.
It is an excuse that you are giving to yourself not to others .Friends its only you are losing no one else. As someone has rightly said “ To advance we should have faith in ourselves first and then in God”
“ kal kisne dekha hain jo karna hain aaj karlo “
          My special request to youngsters who are choosing different career options and are completely confused  In Bold I would say “ Please follow  your passion , your dream, your eternal motive  trust me you will be successful in real terms“
          As what I feel successful is a person who loves his/her work and not the one who earns good but still not happy and satisfied in life