How to build confidence in your children?

  1. Thank you for helping me ..../ Wow ! you did it on your own!!/ I really appreciate your efforts:

          Friends these are small gestures and you must be thinking do I really need to always praise my  child, even for their smallest deed? Answer is " YES " 
          Studies show that when we praise the efforts / dedication of our child they are likely to make more progress and become more goal oriented. They will see challenges as hurdles and will try to work on the strategies that can make them face these obstacles effortlessly.  

Just think: how do you feel when you cook supper and family members praise your cooking?

  2.  You set a great example for those around you!

          Always Surround your child with positive, confident people. When children are around people who work hard and have a " can do" attitude, they are more likely to adopt a "can do" attitude as well.
          Especially when children are around others who are conquering similar challenges that they face, it can be more effective and powerful.

Just think:  how do you feel when you meet a depressing, negative, dejected person who has a complaining nature? Do you love talking to him/her daily?

  3.   Can you do this...?

           Give them a job. When children are given some responsibility , opportunity they get that internal boost that can't be attained in any other way. They feel more valuable and successful.

Just think:  How do you feel when you are given some responsibility to prove yourself?

 4.    Actually I can?

           Encourage your little one to set goals, when children set meaningful goals, they get driven by the excitement to achieve it and eventually earn the confidence that comes with goal achievement.

What are they interested in learning?

Ask them to jot down and devise a plan accordingly.

Just think:  When you feel mislead,directionless, who is the one with whom you discuss and seek suggestions ?

 5.    Believe you can and you're halfway there!

             When your children are feeling down, talk to them about what they have achieved with hard work and perseverance. Reminding them of the high grade they achieved on a tough test or the award they received for a sport or a contest would be a good initiative at your end.

Just think:  Did you ever participated in a race, remember when you were palpitating and  were  near the finishing line, you wanted to give up?

 Friends, you need to fill your child's bucket  of self Esteem so high that the rest of the world can't poke enough to drain it dry. 

Let's celebrate feminism by abandoning Abusive words

     

Mom you are my Originator and I Respect you

       Nowadays it has become a trend , a swagger quotient amongst the youths  . Many people feel proud to speak dirty words like (ma.....MotherF.... and behen... Fuc...) as a symbol of prestige and status. But there's always this thought that dwindles my mind time and again as why not words like FatherF and BrotherF are not so commonly used with the same intensity?
       

       A humble request to you all please don't use these words and also stop others from using the same. These are the weakest forms of expressions There are many ways by which we can express our anger and outrage let's desert this way.

Its Our thoughts that become words,these words lead to actions, and ultimately it is our Actions that frame our Destiny.

         Words portray your character your thought process. Have you ever thought why sexual crimes are rising sharply these days? The reason is we ourselves are polluting the minds and feeding the brains with such ill thoughts. Just think how will you feel if someone younger to you your sibling or your child adapt these words? It is we who are transmitting these filthy vibes to our younger generation. Friends " Be the CHANGE you want to see in the world. Start implementing it on self first "
         

         Today on this Women's day let's pledge that we won't be using such nasty words and will try our level best by conveying the same message to the people around us.

        One should not forget " It is a woman who has given you birth " At least for her sake let's take an oath to abandon such words that disrespect the integrity, the individuality of a person and to be more specific a WOMAN.